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6. The anti-supply crowd. “They were never my real friends. They were happy to drink my booze, let me spend my money on them. Dinners, trips, you name it. When I snapped to the fact they were users and losers, I’ve never spoken to them again. They all took her side when we split up.”

9. The exes. “Bro, all my exes live in Texas. That’s why I moved to Cali. I got burned so bad, I’ve thought about going gay. You think I’m hot enough, man?”

8. Anyone they perceive as ever having slighted or harmed them. Grudges and resentments are immortal. “Don’t bring his name up. He was my best friend. It still hurts how he betrayed me.”

I’m wondering about attachment and transference with the therapist and the idea of escape and fantasy? How much do you think your strong feelings, constant thoughts, desires to be with your therapist are a way to escape from your present life? I wonder if the transference serves another purpose than to show us our wounds and/or past experiences, but is a present coping strategy for managing what we don’t want to face (even if unconsciously) in the present—-current relationships, life circumstances, etc. Can anyone relate to this concept of escape in relation to their therapy relationship? How does this play out for you?

5. Successful people. They fear and resent accomplishments by others. “Now that he’s published, he’s so full of himself. What an arrogant ass. He always was now that I see how he really is.”

1. Anyone aware and strong enough to see through the sicko games they love, they live to play.

7. People who are calm, happy, intelligent, self-assured, productive and have little use for the nonsense the NPD brings to a relationship. “She’s a corporate lawyer. Whoop-te-do! She’s so aloof. What man would want her? Her whole life is centered around that job.

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12. Call them out for the lies and fraudulent behaviors, especially publicly. You will see their wrath. My NPD patient loves storming out dramatically screaming about my mother being a whore. Had nothing to do with what I was confronting him about in front of others.

4. Folks smart enough to not be fooled by the initial love bombing. “Worst sex I’ve ever had, dude. She was a horrible lay. The first time, I thought she was just being shy. My mistake for trying again. Don’t go near her with your pecker. Spread the word, she’s a cold fish.”

11. Better-looking, better at sports, a better body, bigger boobs. “They have to be as fake as she is. If I had that kind money, I could have that same salon hair she’s always slinging around.”

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10. Money, power and connections they can’t access. “Homie, get me fifteen minutes with your dad. He could change my life. He knows that whole crowd.”

3. Gaslighting victims they’ve harmed or tried to destroy. “They’re such a liar, Blanche. None of that ever happened. Don’t listen to my ex. She’s sick. That’s why I dumped the psycho…”

2. All authority figures. Police, bosses, a spouse or parent who knows you intimately. If you have any power over them… you’re Enemy #1.

What are some mind-blowing facts that sound unreal but are actually true?